We need to talk about the absolute fact that abortion is NOT men’s business at all or in the slightest! This article is for all men and women(!) who try to argue this fact with a statement that reveals their complete ignorance on the topic: abortion being a contraceptive. This is going to be a rude to-the-point account of the issue to establish the fact that abortion is actually not up for debate.
Women’s bodies are much more complex than men’s. So, naturally men struggle to wrap their heads around things that have nothing to do with them. To help them out I’m going to explain it plain and simple using 4 clear examples.
Now, in order to keep this simple and straight forward I will generalise: women create life, men are cunts etc.
- If that triggers you, then you know that you are the problem
- Or if generalising is too much for you to handle, then leave this page immediately!
Because yes, I know that decent men also exist and that not all women can or want to have children. That’s a completely different topic, so go somewhere else for that. In addition, other people can talk about the emotional and physical implications of abortion.
They are major but they are also the topics that most men and stupid people don’t give a fuck about. So, I will be covering the points that will interest men because the fact remains that if this shit goes south, we will take them down with us! If they won’t understand anything else, they should understand that.
Abortion is NOT Men’s Business – 4 Reasons Why
Before we get to the 4 points why abortion is NOT men’s business, I have to cover something essential! While women’s bodies and health have been studied alarmingly little, it doesn’t change the facts.
- Nowadays women no longer need a man to have a child.
- Multiple studies show that single women are the happiest people.
- Men’s bodies lack in terms of pain tolerance, resilience and hormones.
I can hear blood vessels popping in many men’s heads after the third point. It’s true though! From a purely biological point of view, men lose in every sense to a woman biologically. Let’s make this extra clear:
- men’s bodies can transfer food into poop and discard it.
- women’s bodies can do that too. And in addition, women’s bodies can create life, produce sustenance to an infant and endure immense amounts of pain.
If you still doubt the pain endurance part, I suggest you acquaint yourself with videos of men trying to tolerate period pain that women deal with EVERY MONTH. Now, let’s get to it:
1. Abortion is part of women’s basic healthcare
Healthcare is a human right and as such not up for debate. This is true at least in the European Union but should be so globally. And abortion is just one small part of women’s basic healthcare. It is NOT a contraceptive, they are a completely different topic.
There is no data on this because women’s health is not sufficiently studied but I’d estimate that most abortions are done for women who have miscarried. That means it is not a choice, it’s a necessity! These women do not want to lose the pregnancy and if abortion isn’t available then, they may lose a lot more: their lives. Of which we have plenty of proof…
As such, it must be available to all women! How does that mean, though, that abortion is not men’s business? Simply because men have no idea what miscarriage is, what it entails and how incredibly traumatising it can be.
Such overflowing ignorance grants men 0 right to an opinion on the matter! The Korean 4B movement put it best:
My own flesh and blood must not become a blade turned against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me, I will not let that world exist – Korean 4B movement
2. Men have NO CLUE what abortion is
I always say that nobody should assume anything about another person because it’s 99,99% sure they’ll be wrong. But now I go against my own advice because I’m 99,99% sure I’m right: men think that abortion = a pill that makes the pregnancy disappear like a fart in the Sahara. And that is exactly why abortion is NOT men’s business at all!
Sure, there is a pill involved. Two in fact. But the pregnancy doesn’t just evaporate. Instead, the pills cause a physical reaction that resembles giving birth. And what is giving birth all about?
PAIN!!!!
Physical and mental pain that a male body could never sustain. Pain that would cause a male body to go into cardiac arrest in no time. The contractions alone would be enough to end most men. As such, abortion can be a dangerous procedure. Loss of blood is involved, on top of which other complications can cause serious damage to the woman enduring an abortion.
Even though an abortion can be done at home, it is always risky and should never be done alone. Now, would you still assume that abortion is something that anyone would endure voluntarily for the fun of it? If yes, then I’d like to watch you go through all that pain and suffering, and you’ll have to enjoy it!
3. Bodily autonomy is NOT up for debate: if women lose it, men lose it too!
Women have the fundamental right to make decisions about their own bodies. Not that most men would give a flying fuck about it, but whether they do or don’t doesn’t change the fact.
- Pregnancy involves significant physical, emotional, and psychological changes.
- Changes that men can’t even begin to imagine because their bodies aren’t built for such.
- And since only women can physically experience these changes, the decision to continue or terminate a pregnancy rests with them.
- Yes, in a relationship the man should be consulted but the decision is only and ever the woman’s.
Terminating pregnancy is primarily done for health and safety reasons, not for the fun of it. Because in case it still isn’t clear to you, it’s not fun or safe! And on that note, I’d like to point out that reproductive rights are a crucial aspect of gender equality. And as such it works both ways:
You can call me petty and I’ll take it as a compliment because mark my words: if abortion rights are taken away from me, I will make bloody sure that parts of basic healthcare for men will be taken away from them as well!! If women lose some of their bodily autonomy, so do men!
I’m already building a list of men’s healthcare and the parts of it that shall be stripped away if you threaten women’s right to abortion. And you can count on me to make sure it’ll have a significant affect on men’s health overall! We women suffer regardless but so will you if you don’t accept that abortion is not men’s business in the slightest.
4. Women create life, men destroy it
Truth! It’s no coincidence that the world is going to shit because it’s been “led” by old, traumatised men with massive daddy issues. They’ve managed to get into places of power only because there’s been a woman who’s held their hand and kept them intact from the seams all the way. And yet all they manage to do is cause havoc, destruction and misery all around them.
But now more and more women are understanding that this “deal” actually doesn’t benefit us in any way. Quite the opposite, we’ve been the oppressed, nothing more than a tool for men to use and abuse for their own and often quite useless gains. A lot of men view women only as an automated child machine (ACM, very similar to ATMs). And we’ve allowed that!
It’s taken women long enough to remember that there’s quite a bit more to us. We’ve been taught that an entity often depicted as male and titled as ‘god’ created the world but that isn’t quite true, is it? Regardless of what species we’re talking about, it’s only females that create and nurture life. Not gods, women. And if we assume that one that creates life is god, then:
Woman = God
A simple truth that has been forgotten by us ladies. As only women can truly understand what creating life is about, it’s quite clear why abortion is not men’s business at all. The gender roles (if such exist) need to be flipped around: men support, women create because a fundamental fact is that:
When women are miserable, men’s lives are not worth living
Big societal changes are slow but we are already well on our way to flipping the whole gender narrative back to its origins. And it’s certainly causing some reactions! As women are taking their power back, men get desperate. And when men get desperate, people die.
- As a result, women are now choosing to stay safe, and unfortunately that means staying single.
- They say things get worse before they get better and the disgusting global phenomena known as femicide sure is things getting worse.
- But at the same time we see the pendulum starting to swing to the other direction: men from younger generations are learning to recognise, talk about and express their emotions in a humane manner.
This is a very welcome and positive direction but we still have plenty of men who see women only as objects. These sorts of men stick to their conditioning, which has taught them that they don’t need to take responsibility for themselves. They think that the fix exists outside of them, for example in a relationship.
This was never true and now that “the fix” is no longer available for a lot of men, they go off the rails. We know this, so why would we allow someone as unstable as that the right for an opinion on abortion or anything to do with women, when they can’t even view us as human?
Final thoughts on why abortion is NOT men’s business
Women are complex entities that even they themselves sometimes struggle to understand. If you haven’t lived as a woman, you can’t even begin to imagine what a roller coaster it is. And as such, you have no right for an opinion on anything related to them. A bit harsh? Not really, just true. It’s about time somebody said it.
Abortion is not men’s business but if they are able to do so in a humane manner, they are welcome to join the conversation. For example, in a relationship, for moral, ethical and social reasons, abortion should be a shared decision. But even then a woman’s view on the matter weighs fundamentally more than the man’s for the simplest reason:
It’s her body, not his!
A woman is not an object and can thus NOT be owned by another being. And as we’ve covered, abortion is a serious business, at worst it can be dangerous. Women do not risk their lives just for the fun of it the same way that many men do.
So no, abortion is never an easy decision that would be taken lightly. But it is necessary for women’s health and safety. And that’s why your opinion on it is worth less than nothing.
FAQ
Q: What is abortion?
A: Abortion is a medical procedure that terminates a pregnancy. This can be done through medication (medical abortion) or a surgical procedure (surgical abortion). The reasons for having an abortion differ between personal, social, or medical reasons but are always connected to women’s health, safety and wellbeing.
Q: Is abortion legal everywhere?
A: Abortion laws vary widely around the world. In some countries, abortion is legal and accessible, while in others, it is heavily restricted or banned altogether. Abortion is part of women’s basic healthcare and banning it always leads to unnecessary deaths. It counts as manslaughter, even murder committed by medical professionals.
Q: What are the potential risks associated with abortion?
A: Like any medical procedure, abortion carries some potential risks, which is why it should never be done alone if done at home. Risks can include infection, excessive bleeding, and injury to surrounding organs. Many also experience feelings of sadness, guilt, or regret, although there is also relief and empowerment in being able to make that decision. The risks vary depending on the method used and how far along the pregnancy is at the time of the procedure.
Q: What are the reasons women choose to have an abortion?
A: Women may choose to have an abortion for various reasons but most of them are for health and safety reasons for example after miscarriage or because there are severe fetal abnormalities. Other and rarer reasons include financial difficulties, lack of support, or being unprepared for parenthood. Each abortion is an individual choice, so the reasons are deeply personal and can differ, but it’s a choice that is never taken lightly.
